Back to the basics: How to become a sissy?

I think it's time to revisit the basics.

It's been over a year since I wrote my "How to become a sissy? A starting guide." post. Since then, I've trained a few dozen girls, and I learned a thing or two, even though I still agree with the main point of the original "How to become a sissy" guide.

Most sissies have a complicated relationship with their inner girl. For many, it's a love-hate relationship. It's especially difficult when you're at the beginning of your journey. Not only are you terrified of trying, but when you finally find the courage to do so, the results are not what you hoped for!

All the sissies you've seen all over the social media are stunning. Gorgeous. So feminine. How on earth are you supposed to become a sissy like them?! You, on the other hand, look as if you're wearing a costume that doesn't fit.

It's easy to become discouraged and give up. Why risk so much, and spend money, effort, and time, only to end up frustrated with your looks? It's a crucial moment in your sissy training journey. You must not fall for this trap.

You have to make up for the knowledge and skills that women spend decades acquiring. Even for them, achieving genuine and captivating femininity is an art that some never fully grasp. Sounds difficult? There's one advantage that can put you ahead, however, and that's determination. Your dream is to become beautiful.

If there's one thing I keep telling my students over and over and again, it's this: being a sissy is a marathon, not a sprint. Take a step-by-step approach. Learn from someone experienced. Find a community. Don't expect too much in the beginning.

One of my students almost quit on her first day. I prepared a two-week training plan for her. When she saw that by the end of week two, I wanted her to be able to put the makeup on (nothing too difficult, a natural no-makeup makeup look!), she was terrified!

I don't think my training has a crazy pace, but she needed to slow down! And it's completely alright. We started doing things slowly. Little tasks like researching foundations. Preparing a list of items for a dream outfit. Starting with a proper skincare.

After a few weeks, she was thriving in her femininity! The difference I witnessed was incredible. What is the lesson from all this? Take small steps and be consistent. There are many aspects of your feminine journey:

• Psychology

• Makeup

• Figure

• Wigs/hair

• Wardrobe

• Voice

• Social circle

Start with what you see as most important (I suggest working on your mind first. Unresolved issues will pop up sooner or later), and do a little task everyday. Good luck!